Thursday, November 24, 2005

Thankful

A Modest Proposal IIThe food has been cooked and eaten, the leftovers have been put away, and the kitchen has been cleaned. A big pot of turkey stock is bubbling away on the stove and the house feels very home-y. All of the holiday festivities are over, but the thankfulness remains. This year, even more than previous years, I am very thankful.

I'm thankful that I can share my life with such a wonderful husband and such great kids. I am thankful for my loving and supportive family and friends. I'm thankful that I have a job and a roof over my head and more than enough creature comforts. I'm thankful for everyone's continued good health. But, most of all, I'm so very thankful that there was a happy, healthy baby sitting next to me during dinner, trying mashed potatoes for the first time and trying to decide if he liked them or not. A year ago today I was six months pregnant and just starting to have the problems that were the forerunners of Max's early arrival. It seems like a lifetime ago. But we weathered that year, and here I sit and count my blessings. Thankful.

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday.

Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Prematurity Awareness Day


Today is Prematurity Awareness Day. As you might expect, we're big fans of the March of Dimes and we wanted to do our small part to support the good work that they do. We will be making a yearly donation to the March of Dimes, in Max's honor. If it were not for modern medicine and the medical advances made by prematurity research, our baby wouldn’t be here today. By supporting prematurity awareness, education, and research, we’d like to think we’re helping to spare future families the struggle and hard times that we went through. We’ve been very fortunate and blessed – every premature baby deserves such a happy outcome.

So Grown up AlreadyAs far as Max news goes, we've spotted tooth number seven and we believe tooth number eight is not far behind. Of course, that means that young master Max won't be sleeping through the night any time soon. We're looking forward to a teething break after these last two teeth come in -- he should be done until his 12-year molars, but between his chronological age (when he was actually born) and his adjusted age (when he should have been born), we never know when he's going to do anything. ;) He definitely keeps us guessing -- I'm just hoping he waits a couple of months to get those molars! He looks pretty cute, though, with his toothy little grin!

On the moveMax is definitely mobile and loving every minute of it. He's still not crawling "properly," although he's inchworming all over the place. He's started to take some proper "steps" with his hands, so we think he'll figure it out before too long. Of course, now that he's everywhere and into everything, we realize that we need to do some serious babyproofing. The things Max most seems to want to play with are the very things that he especially can't play with. He has a particular penchance for power cords. He also likes to attempt to chew on the wheels of his stroller, as well as any part of the dog that is within reach.

I'm uploading new photos to Flickr on a regular basis, so you can always check there for the latest and greatest Max photos!

Friday, November 04, 2005

Mama's Gonna Buy You a Mockingbird ...

"Hush, Little Baby" has always been Max's favorite song. As you might imagine, I've "bought" hundreds and hundreds of mockingbirds over the last year. I sang that lullaby to Max before he was born. I sang it to him through the portholes of his isolette. I sang it to him when we kangarooed and when I was finally able to rock him to sleep. I sang it to him when he was colicky and when he was teething. It always calmed him down, even when nothing else would and when I sing it to him now he always smiles. So, since I needed a title for my new blog, "Buying Mockingbirds" seemed appropriate.

As you can see, I'm moving Max's tale to a new location. The Care Pages were wonderful, but I think we're ready for something a little more versatile. You can still read our updates here and I'll still mail out update notifications (if anyone doesn't want to receive notifications any more, just follow the unsubscribe instructions in the notification email). I'm still going to house the majority of the photos on a separate site, although I'm moving those too. They're going to migrate over to Flickr, which is a nifty photo site that offers some convenient features. To visit the photo site, use the preceding link or go to http://www.flickr.com/photos/evenfamily/ -- you can also click on any of the small photos below to see a larger version and go to the photo site.

Beautiful BoyMax is officially 10 months old! At his (belated) 9-month well-baby exam last week, he weighed in at 18 1/2 pounds and 27 inches long. That's almost seven times his birth weight and almost double the length. He's not a little baby any more! His checkup went well -- the doctor thought he looked great. Since he's bigger and eating more solid food now, we took him off the Zantac for a couple of weeks to see how he does. Max's pediatrician talked me into giving him the flu shot (they had a thimerosol-free shot available) and I'm still checking with the insurance company to see if they will cover RSV shots. The pediatrician said he's probably still more vulnerable to viruses and whatnot than your average baby, but since he hasn't been sick yet (*knock on wood*), we don't have any frame of reference to judge his body's virus coping abilities. We'll have to lay a bit low during cold and flu season and continue with our manic handwashing regime.

Max now has six teeth and is doing well with solid food -- he really loves to eat. As of last week, he's having two meals of solid food a day. So far, he likes everything we've put him front of him, but bananas seem to be a particular favorite. We've been making our own baby food, which is really easy and fun.

Bah, Humbug!Max has figured out his own method of pseudo crawling, which we've dubbed his "inchworming." He gets up on his hands and knees, flings himself forward in a mad belly flop, then pulls himself back up on his hands and knees and repeats the process until he gets where he wants to go. He's enjoying his newfound mobility -- he particularly likes inchworming over to wherever the dog is sleeping and attempting to pull out her hair. He also thinks it's fun to slap his hands on the kitchen floor. Today he started trying to pull himself up on his crib rail, so we had to move the mattress down to a lower level. It was awfully cute seeing him with his two hands on the rail and his little eyes peering over the edge.

Max, King of All Wild ThingsAnd, last but not least, Max celebrated his first Halloween this week! I've been planning his Halloween costume since his NICU days -- he was Max, King of All Wild Things from Maurice Sendak's "Where the Wild Things Are." Since he was too little to go trick-or-treating, Max and I sat out on the porch and handed out candy. We took all three kids out last week and picked out pumpkins, then took them home and carved them. Although Mom carved Max's pumpkin for him, Micaela and Connor both designed and carved their own pumpkins this year. We made the traditional roasted pumpkin seeds (Connor's favorite), then made our traditional Halloween "ghostie" desserts (basically, pudding, Cool Whip, and crushed oreos).

I hope everyone enjoys the new site -- comments and feedback are welcome! I still have some tweaking to do, but at least it's functional.